Funny Things That Happen In Prayer

Islamic Prayers In Congregation: So Much Fun

One of the most important things for me as a Muslim living in the U.S. is to live close to a Masjid. If I had the choice, I will never want to live more than a ten minute drive from one. I’ve done it before, and it’s not fun.

The reason I love living close to a Masjid is that I want to pray in congregation, especially the dawn (Fajr) and evening (Isha) prayers.

But while I love praying in congregation, there are some drawbacks.

These mostly occur because it can be difficult to fit a couple hundred Muslims in a limited space.

Sometimes they happen because of carelessness on our part.

Nonetheless, I wanted to share my experiences praying together with other Muslims for many years here in these wonderful United States.

So, this is my list of congregational prayer incidents.

By the way, I credit Maniac Muslim for writing about this first and doing a pretty good job.

The Fidgety Muslim

I can’t stand this guy.

I’m standing in prayer, trying to concentrate, trying get my Khushoo together, and the brother next to me is fluttering like a leaf on tree.

He’s scratching. He’s twitching. He’s tussling his hair. He’s checking his watch. I’m thinking: “Is this guy gonna start break dancing or something?”

All of this fidgeting usually leads to one or more of several personal feelings within me:

  1. I feel like kicking him for ruining my focus and concentration in prayer (this is the most common).
  2. Whatever twitching disease he has crosses over to me and I start itching all over.
  3. I start to imagine he’s not really fidgeting but he’s actually dancing to whatever beat’s playing in his head.

There’s not much you can do about the Fidgety Muslim. Maybe if you have the focus of drone, you can block him out. But most likely you’re going to start wondering what song he’s hearing and if it’s any good.

The Head Stepper

This guy exists because Masjids put lines in the Musallah (which, as I point out in this article, is an innovation) in order to squeeze as many people into the building as possible.

This is all well and good for those people who are five foot ten and under.

But I’m six foot three.

My head and my back suffer because of the ridiculously small spaces mandated by these lines.

My back suffers because I have to scrunch my body up so as not to cross over the line in front of me when I make Sajdah (prostration).

My head suffers because my back often gets tired of scrunching up. This allows my head to wander too close to the heels of the brother in front of me (the Head Stepper).

So when he stands up…BAM! My head gets kicked and stepped on.

Fortunately, I’ve found a solution to this problem…sort of.

I try to gauge if the person in front of me is a tortoise or a hare.

The Tortoise Head Stepper takes his time getting moving from one position to another. If the guy in front of me fits in this category, it’s no problem making sure I get my head up before he gets his heels up.

But if he’s a Hare Head Stepper then I’ve gotta be on my toes. I mean that literally.

I usually find out by the second rakaat (unit of the Muslim prayer) if I’m praying behind a Hare Head Stepper. That’s because my head’s gotten stepped on in the first rakaat. So now, it’s just a matter of timing my prayer so that I stand up before the Hare Head Stepper does.

The Rump Bumper.

I’ve been both victim and culprit.

If you’ve ever wondered what’s worst, getting smacked in the head by someone’s behind while going into Sajdah, or smacking someone’s head with your behind while going into sajdah, I can assure you it’s the latter.

You can imagine the awkwardness.

Really, how do you apologize for something like this? “Salaams brother. I’m sorry for hitting you in the head with my butt.” That just doesn’t sound right.

Besides, what’s his head doing so far ahead anyway?

The flip side is “what’s my behind doing so far…behind?” Sorry, I couldn’t help it.

The Sick Cougher

Unlike the other issues on this post, this guy really can’t help his situation. He’s just gotten over a cold and he has every right to pray in congregation with his fellow Muslims.

I just wish he didn’t pray next to me.

This is the guy who sounds like he spent the last two weeks living in a freezer.

He’s still a little sick. He’s coughing all over the place. He’s sniffling. He’s constantly clearing his throat. You can hear him swallowing his phlegm after a good hacking session. He’s wiping his drippy nose (with his right hand no less and you just know he’s gonna offer it to you after prayer and be like “Salaam’s bro” as if it’s nothing!)

The Sick Cougher is so annoying because it’s actually much more detrimental to my health than the Head Stepper and Rump Bumper. Take a cough drop! Eat some chicken soup. Take some Vitamin C. Just please do something!

The Tasty Burper

This is the funniest but grossest of all.

He’s guy who standing next to you who just had a big plate of food and wants to share it with everyone else.

I’m sure you’ve been there. You’re in prayer, listening to the Imam recite when someone next to you lets loose a silent, breathy burp.

About three seconds later, you’re hit in the face with the smell of rice, beef, chicken, and digestive juices.

Yuck. Yuck. Yuck.

I’ve experienced this so often, I already know what to expect based on the ethnicity and age of the perpetrator.

  • Pakistani – Without a doubt, you’re gonna smell Biryaani.
  • Arab – Almost always you’re gonna smell beef or goat.
  • A kid of any ethnicity – You’re gonna smell either Kool-Aid, candy, or something cherry-flavored.
  • African-American – All of the above.

Like the Head Stepper above, I’ve also devised a way to avoid the smells of the Tasty Burper.

As soon as you hear a burp, immediately hold your breath. According to my calculations, the smell should pass in about 7 – 10 seconds. Afterwards, you should be free to breathe easy.

Of course this has backfired on me at times.

Sometimes, I’ve held my breath, but miscalculated how long the meaty smell would linger. So I would exhale and then inhale deeply only to suck up ten times the burpy vapor.

Other times, when I was surrounded on both sides by Tasty Burpers, I was simply outflanked.

The Burper on my left would let loose, and I’d hold my breath. After a few seconds, just when I was beginning to think it was safe to breathe again, the guy on my right would unleash a barrage.

So I’d be stuck. I can either submit to the second guy’s burp and breath it all in, or I can continue to hold my breath and hope I don’t pass out.

In the end, I always had to admit defeat and breathe in the Tasty Burper’s fumes.

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6 Responses to Funny Things That Happen In Prayer

  1. My question also is if i am sooo concentrating on all of these reactions and what to do if so and so happens, how can i attain Khushoo and only concentrate on Allah?…Perhaps I’ll just have to concentrate on Allah only..Khushoo and when all this other stuff happens..and it does..just keep concentrating and get the reward for staying focused and having to suffer through all these things..perhaps my reward would be even larger..InshaAllah..!

    • As-Salaamu Alaikum Sr. Shahidah,

      These distractions can pull your attention away from the prayer. Even something like a baby crying or just your own thoughts can pull your focus.

      One of the best pieces of advice I’ve ever heard about this matter is that Khushoo is not a goal, it’s a journey. We are always trying to improve our concentration, focus, and fear of Allah during prayer. There is no point where we can say: “I have enough Khushoo.”

      With that in mind, you should strive earnestly to maintain your focus in prayer. If your mind starts to wander, remember that Allah not only sees what you do on the outside, He sees what you’re doing inside as well.

      Also (I’m not sure of your background so I don’t know what your level of knowledge is or if you speak Arabic) try to understand what it is you’re saying in prayer. In every single Rakaah, try to embody and act upon every word that you say. After all, you’re communicating with Allah when you make Salaah.

      If you can imagine, if you could see Allah right in front of you while you’re praying, how would you feel? What would be going through your mind? Would you just recite Surah Al-Fatihah from memory without any feeling? Or would you say it with conviction in your heart, meaning every single word that comes out of your mouth?

      Remember the Hadith of Jibreel when the Angel asked the Messenger of Allah (pbuh) what was Ihsan (righteousness). Prophet Muhammad (pbuh) explained that Ihsan was to worship Allah as if you see Him, and if you cannot reach that level, then know that He sees you.

      And Allah knows best.

      • Assalamualaikum brother.I know this post is quite old but i would like to thank you for taking the time and effort to write your reply on a post that was just about funny things that people do in salah and it seeked no knowledge whatsoever but you took the time out to write something which was not required and it is benifiting people even after 4 years.May Allah reward you for your efforts and May Allah make you continue your good deeds.Ameen .

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