Thank you for leaving a comment. It is wonderful news that you’re thinking about accepting Islam.

I would suggest you convert to Islam immediately regardless of what happens with your boyfriend. Your relationship with God is more important than your relationship with any man.

Second, your boyfriend is committing a major sin by dating you outside of marriage. If he wants to marry you, I would suggest you accept his proposal so you both can stop committing the sin of fornication.

As for your jealousy, first accept Islam, then pray to Allah for patience and to cure your jealousy. The same advice refers to your child. Accept Islam and raise him/her as a Muslim.

Once again, the most important thing is your relationship with Islam.

May Allah give you what’s best.

Thank you for leaving a comment.

Fornication is a serious sin in Islam. The punishment for an unmarried person who commits this sin is 100 lashes and one year banishment from the community. But it is better to repent from this sin, keep it to yourself, and resolve never to commit it again.

You should understand that Allah forgives all sins, so long as we repent and strive never to repeat them again. Allah is the Most Forgiving and The Most Merciful. Please listen to this video that I made about repentance.

If the woman is willing to become Muslim that is a good thing. If she accepts Islam that will clear her of her sin, and if you can marry her and try to keep this shameful act between yourselves and never do it again.

If she does not accept Islam, and she is a Christian or Jew you can still marry her. But if she is a Hindu or Buddhist or Atheist, then it is not permissible to marry her. Regardless of whether you marry her or not, you still have a responsibility to provide for your child.

Repent for your sin immediately and ask Allah for guidance.

And Allah knows best.

Thank you for visiting and leaving a comment. It is very inspiring to hear that you’re interested in Islam. Please continue to learn and continue to seek the truth.

I must advise you to encourage your boyfriend to marry you. As a Muslim, he should know that “dating” in Islam is not allowed. I don’t want to get into your personal business, but it would be better for both of you spiritually, if he marries you (Muslim men can marry Christian women) and the two of you can begin to build your life together.

Whatever your decision, I wish you the best.

I just want to say that your site is awesome. Especially to someone like me, who is Chritian and am very interested in the faith as I am am dating a muslim man. I love that it is so easy to understand. Please sign me uo as I really want to learn on how I can be a partner that he will love and cherish, I know that God will only be exalted if we place Him first in everything and I do want HIS blessing and favor in my relationship with Mohammad.

Kind regards
Melanie